Perimenopause Help

Question by : Does my boyfriends libido seem high to you guys?
When I spend time with my boyfriend, he seems to want sex constantly. He’s all over me before we fall asleep and when we wake up in the mornings, which isn’t unusual but if we’re alone during the day he’ll ask for sex around 4-5 times a day. This seems quite high to me and he quite often leaves me feeling sore and bruised. When I don’t feel up to it, he often pressures me into sex or masturbates. Does anyone have any advice on reducing his libido to make it more comfortable for me to be around him?

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Answer by Shae
um yeah of course

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Question by Leticia: Is there any kind of supplement that I can slip in my husband’s protein shakes to help increase his libido?
My husband is 40 years old and although we have regular sex it’s not as frequent as I’d like it to be. We both work out alot so I’m wondering if there is any kind of supplements that someone can recommend to me that will help increase his libido. Natural supplements no viagra suggestions please.

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Answer by Jess W.
There is a drink called “Niagra.” I’ve only seen it in stores once in my life, but supposedly it tastes great and increases your libido. It doesn’t have an effect on you like Viagra does, it just makes you horny. I’ve personally never tried it though. I’m sure you could look it up on google or something though. Good luck!

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Question by spiritofprohecy: What natural ways can I improve my libido and sex drive?
Hi, i am turning 24 this year and since my teenage years i have noticed that my sex drive is lowering and so is my libido! I don’t get as hard as i use to and i don’t get as many errections as i use too! When i first was going out with my girlfriend i use to always get an errection, once even because she held my hand… now i believe because i have gotten use to all this, sexual stuff too… my drive and libido has gone down… i also masterbate like all males do… should i reduce masterbation and what natural stuff can i take to increase my libido and errections?

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Answer by * *
you could try damiana in water, it takes a week to become active or horny goat weed or even a good adult film for you both to watch.

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Question by e.mehringer: Is there something that I can take over the counter for low libido?
Is that anything that I can take OTC for low libido? I’m 29, have three kids and a part time student.

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Answer by Lost Angel
sounds like if you had a little less to do

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Question by JarJar Binks: Will my libido go away if I take Zoloft for anxiety/depression and Propecia for hair loss?
One of the sides of BOTH of these drugs is loss of libido. Should I just quit the propecia? I’m afraid of losing my libido.

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Answer by Slug Head
Try it and see what happens. You won’t know the side effects until you try em. If it does you can stop one or both to restore it.

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Question by : What happens to a woman’s libido after menopause?
I’ve heard two completely opposite things. I’ve heard that she loses her libido because of the hormonal changes. But I’ve also heard that once the risk of pregnancy is gone, her libido actually increases because she can enjoy herself without the constant worry of an unplanned pregnancy. Does anyone know? Or is it different for different women?

(I’m reposting this in “Senior Citizens” with the hopes some of you experienced ladies can help me out! Thanks!)

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Answer by Laurie
…My Physician told me that 50%of women lose interest completely. And he was correct.In talking to other women,that is what they have said.

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Question by Diego: What’s an antidepressant that is also a stimulant and doesn’t reduce libido?
I’m looking for a good antidepressant. The only stipulations are that it needs to be a stimulant and it needs to not have the side effect of reducing libido (sex drive). Are there any such antidepressant? Thanks.

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Answer by Brandon
Zoloft is said to decrease your sex drive but I have never been less horny. 8P

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Question by WTFK: Why has my libido gone down since my wife has become pregnant?
Since my wife has become pregnant my libido has gone completely down, and it has been over a month since we had sex last. I do not know why but I do not get turned on anymore, not at all by no one. I believe it will soon crush my marriage.
I would like to know if there are any articles or anything in the subject. If it is normal, if there are other people out there with the same problem, and how some of these people overcame it.

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Answer by ?Kimmeh? ??
Maybe your subconscious thinks that it’s harmful to the baby if you have sex. In most cases, if there aren’t any complications in pregnancy, it’s perfectly fine… just avoid the super kinky stuff, obviously. My husband did the same thing for awhile… he was afraid of hurting the growing baby in me. Maybe you should discuss this with your wife? Maybe her libido has gone away a little too? During my second pregnancy, I had no sex drive what so ever. It’s tough to get through in marriage, but if you can both compromise … things will work out.

Because both of us didn’t have much a sex drive at various points, we would simply try to spice our sex life up. Ease the worries of pregnancy. Sometimes when I didn’t want to have sex, I would compromise and maybe do other things foreplay related. Same with my husband. You can still get releif without actually having to have intercourse.

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Question by WTFK: Why has my libido gone down since my wife has become pregnant?
Since my wife has become pregnant my libido has gone completely down, and it has been over a month since we had sex last. I do not know why but I do not get turned on anymore, not at all by no one. I believe it will soon crush my marriage.
I would like to know if there are any articles or anything in the subject. If it is normal, if there are other people out there with the same problem, and how some of these people overcame it.

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Answer by J?K?M
I think it’s just a mental thing you’re going through, because you know that there is a baby in there. And, why would you let something like this crush your marriage??? You need to try to work through it!!! Talk to your wife about, and if you need more help, talk to a professional! I’m sure you’re not the first guy to freak out like this!

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Question by Diego: What’s an antidepressant that is also a stimulant and doesn’t reduce libido?
I’m looking for a good antidepressant. The only stipulations are that it needs to be a stimulant and it needs to not have the side effect of reducing libido (sex drive). Are there any such antidepressant? Thanks.

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Answer by Joe
oxycotnin

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