How do i get my sex drive back?
Question by L: How do i get my sex drive back?
I’ve been with my boyfriend about 5 months now and we used to have sex a lot in one day, almost everyday, as you do at that stage. However, i don’t know why but i don’t ever feel like it. I don’t know if its due to body issues or lazyness but i want it back to help us have a fun, exciting relationship again. It’s not a massive issue as our relationship is still great but i just want to gain my drive back. Any suggestions or tips how?
Best answer:
Answer by J N
just try to spice it up a bit, maybe get a sexy piece of lingerie or something, or get him something you want to see him in. Or get kinky, fulfill some fantacies. If these dont work you can try a natural libido enhancer, most are safe and all natural just do your research on the product before you buy. Good luck and go give your boyfriend whatever he ask for (haha, you can tell this is a guys answer)
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You still have your sex drive, but sometimes due to uncontrollable circumstances your libido isn’t as high. There could be lots of reasons why it isn’t high right now and here are some questions to ask yourself to discover what it could possibly be.
1. Has there been very little sunshine where you live?
Lack of sunshine can lead to depression and lack of libido.
2. Have you been taking any medications?
Often times taking any sort of medication could have the potential side effects like lower sex drive.
3. Has there been an increase in stress in your life?
4. Do you and your boyfriend have any issues that you are harboring, leaving you feeling stale when you are around him?
If you answer yes to any of these questions. I would look into it, but If its not one of these then I suspect that its the natural tendency that your relationship is taking. As you are with a person longer, you will have sex with them less frequently then when you started.
I mean how often do you have sex? Once a week now versus everyday.
When you are first in a relationship you have a rush from a chemical called Dopamine when being with a new partner, but after 3 months those hormones wear off and you will have sex less frequently because of that.
One more question why do you want your sex drive back? Is your partner initiating for sex more often than you want it? If that is true then I would suggest playing with him every once in while, just to indulge him. Until you feel hornier again.
Just be honest in your communication, and also as polite as can be! That’s the key!
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.
One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn’t the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don’t cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it’s the female version of viagra. I had to find out.
I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don’t get multiple orgasms but I’ve had plenty since being on these herbs. It’s seriously like the best vibrator ride you’ve ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don’t even take them because the urge is just too strong.
Don’t try out single herbs because they don’t do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I’ve tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I’m on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don’t work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won’t have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn’t want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.
Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.