Perimenopause Help

Question by egn18s: Women’s opinion about male sex-drive?
Considering how women often complain about being hit on by men and the way men always want sex, my questions are: Would women prefer it if men in general were much less horny? What might be some down sides for women if men were less horny? Are there any women out there that actually like the way men are so horny?

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Answer by Nateface
women are just as horney.

hornier. They just show it in different ways.

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Question by : A few questions about thyroid medication and libido?
1) I know that thyroid medication levothyroxine is known for drastically decreasing sex drive, are there any all nature herbs that will help increase libido without counteracting, or in some way negatively affecting the thyroid medication?

2) Does someone who has hypothyroidism have to take medication for the rest of their lives?
I meant to say are there any all natural herbs or anything else that will help increase libido without messing with the medication? Thanks!

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Answer by Moira Macpherson
Hi, Not sure where you got the idea that levothyroxine drastically reduces sex drive. This is not true and I’m saying this as a qualified nurse and someone who has been taking high levels of levothyroxine since having a total thyroidectomy in 1991.
Some of the symptoms of hypothyroidism are sluggishness and lethargy which are more likely to affect sex drive than the drug. Levothyroxine is replacement therapy, just like hrt, iron tablets, insulin or even multivitamins. As long as you are on the correct dose you should have no problems with sex drive or any other symptoms. Blood tests should be done regularly, ie monthly or so until dosage is correct, then yearly.
Some things can affect the levels of thyroxine in your blood, for example if I go on holiday to an unusually hot place just prior to have my bloods done, this can affect the results. You just need to make sure that the doc knows you’ve been away so he doesn’t increase or reduce the dose.
You will be on this drug for the rest of your life and you will learn how to recognise whether your levels are rising or falling and if you need to change dosages. I get a ‘generally unwell feeling that I can’t put my finger on’ if my levels fall too low. After a couple of days I get a blood test done.

Hope this helps

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Question by Awesome: Question About Male Sex Drive?
Does Masturbation Lower Sex Drive?

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Answer by George
Yes. I used to get off really fast during sex. Then I went through a phase where I would jerk off a few times a day. Now it takes me hours to blow my load.

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Question by : What to do about loss of sex drive during pregnancy?
I’m 23 weeks along. Unfortunately I’m one of the woman who have little to no sex drive during pregnancy. I really don’t want to wait until im not pregnant to see if it’ll come back, and I highly doubt it’ll come back in my third trimester. Is there anything I can take or do while I’m pregnant that’ll help increase my libido?

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Answer by jenna
I’ve had UTI’s and yeast infections throughout my pregnancy so I haven’t wanted to have sex.
And sex just isn’t good for me anymore anyway. I have all the extra weight, and I just don’t feel like I’m in the mood with all the aches pain and having to pee every 10 minutes.
I wouldn’t worry about it. If you don’t feel like doing it don’t stress. Its normal.

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Question by bigbadwolf: Question about the female sex drive. I care greatly for the woman I’m dating. She’s really great…?
…sweet, perfect, fun, and we have a lot in common about what we want out of life, what’s important, ect…
Here is the problem. About 4 years ago her mother was killed in an automobile accident, in the understandable mental confusion created by that she wasn’t regular with her birth control, ended up getting preg. by her then husband who ended up divorcing her and leaving when she was 7 months pregnant. She’s distant with her sisters, and not extremely close with her father (a little anger there because she was given everything in the will and despite her best efforts to share her whole family are “takers” and always standing there with their hands out saying “give me, give me, give me”. All this happened in the brief period of 7 or 8 months, about 3 years ago.
Now to my question. I have strong feelings for her but her sex drive is not nearly what mine is. I believe sex is a big thing in a relationship. Maybe, if you think about it, one of the most important because I doubt any couple that is currently married would have gotten married if one of the two had told the other that they would marry them but would never have sex with her. So, I believe sex is important, it’s just the amount of it that may vary a little from couple to couple.
So, basically I’m wondering how much of her low sex drive is a result of the above, and how much of it is the fact that she’s 37, already has a child, and maybe the sex drive is on it’s way out because of that.
Help, I don’t want to lose her, but we’ve started to argue, and have big discussions about it.
Also, she blames some of lack of desire on her belief that sex outside of marriage is wrong, but I tend to think that percieved morals are easier to uphold when the desire is not what it should be.
Need Advice, please.
Also, please skip this question if you plan on answering with the all encompassing statement of “if you love her you will understand”, because that works both ways.

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Answer by Joy
Sorry, it doesn’t work both ways. You clearly don’t respect or care about this woman, especially since you seem to think her values are just a cover up to keep you from getting the amount of poon you think you deserve.

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Question by Krissy J: question about male sex drive?
i find my husband’s sex drive is higher when he is under stress, is this linked or is it just a coincidence?

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Answer by Scozbo
Males generally relieve stress through physical work. Sex is one way of relieving tension. Therefore, if he is under greater stress, his sex drive may be higher.
THis is only a guide, however. Discuss the issue with him further.

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Question by Juggernaut239: Ladies, what are we going to do about the male sex drive?
What can we do?

Either we develop some sort of drug that reduces male sex drive without lowering energy

or Idk

Because I see a lot of questions on here where women ask:

why do men look at porn.

why do men always have to look at me when I wear this.

why are men attracted to women’s body

why does my bf/husband want sex all the time

etc etc

It seems to me that from these questions men and women think quite differently. And that men and women are not living in the same reality.

So yeah I’m sorry ladies if I looked at you but I promise If I do look I don’t mean to it just happens and then I snap out a split second later and realize what I’ve done.

So what is there to be done?

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Answer by Love your life
Hand out free rape whistles.

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Question by Yanling C: About the Male Sex Drive?
How come guys that aren’t brave enough to ask a good looking girl out, will sleep (FWB-thing?) with an unattractive tramp? Is a male’s sex drive stronger than his attraction to seek out a pretty girl for dating? Recently, I was informed by a friend that certain man was interested in asking me out. Fine, but when he never did, I was told that he has a floozy on the side just for sex that keeps him occupied. Obviously, I lost all interest. But is this true of the average male? Would he choose sex over a relationship every time?

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Answer by Jacob O’rourke
i wouldn’t.. always

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Question by SorrowUndone: Question about a sudden change in female sex drive?
I asked this question yesterday but the answers weren’t very satisfying… So i’m going to bother you guys again.

My gf and I were somewhat sexually active.. Before, we made love like nearly every single day. And for a couple of months, due to our busy schedule, we were able to at least did it twice or thrice a week. However, she is on a bit of an average side (not too lean) and she didn’t like. So recently, she’s on a somewhat strict diet and exercise. She has been losing several pounds and suddenly her sex drive is gone. She’s no longer horny and we haven’t done it for about 3 weeks… However, there’s nothing wrong w/ her and she acts very normal. I know she’s not cheating on me, or on any medication…or anything of that sort. She also mention about abstaining… Have any of the female here gone thru this sudden changes? Is there actually something wrong?

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Answer by kckd
her hormone levels are probably changing from her change in lifestyle…this could change her mood and cravings for sex. also, a change in hormones could change her feelings about rather it is morally right to do that. hormones do alot we don’t always realize. just respect her if you love her.

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Question by SorrowUndone: Question about female sex drive sudden changes.?
My gf and I were somewhat sexually active.. Before, we made love like nearly every single day. And for a couple of months, due to our busy schedule, we were able to at least did it twice or thrice a week. However, she is on a bit of an average side (not too lean) and she didn’t like. So recently, she’s on a somewhat strict diet and exercise. She has been losing several pounds and suddenly her sex drive is gone. She’s no longer horny and we haven’t done it for month… However, there’s nothing wrong w/ her.. she acts very normal. Have any of the female here gone thru this? Is there actually something wrong?

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Answer by ZerohourX
She is cheating on you. Trust me.

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