Question by i’m getting married!: Do you think his libido will ever go back to normal?
My fiance’s libido has declined over the last five years, and the last four years has been almost non-existent. He’s too embarrassed to go to the docs, and has promised to find ‘natural’ remedies, but as yet hasn’t tried any. I love him, and will stay with him regardless, but i SO miss the closeness and intimacy we once had. Do you think things will just go back to normal on their own, or should i push him to try and change things? Thanks.
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Answer by Adair
Five years is a long time to think this could clear up on it’s own. You have agreed to marry a man who is too embarrassed to go to the doctor, but has failed to treat himself for a condition that greatly affects you both, after promising to do so. Yes, you definitely need to push him. He is being negligent of you both, and immature. Before a doctor starts residency, he/she has studied and heard about cases much more dramatic than your fiance’s. As an adult who’s ready to marry, he should be able to get help for himself, especially if his condition is affecting you.
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