Perimenopause Help

Question by bt71: I need some help. My best friend is in perimenopause and hasn’t had a period since the beginning of December?
She says she ovulated around the 26th of Jan and had sex on the 28th…now she is experiencing very light intermittent bleeding and her breasts are swollen. She also says she is extremely fatigued. She thinks she may be pregnant. I told her to take a pregnancy test but I was intrigued by all the combination of symptoms and thought I would get some feedback. I just think it’s menopause…any thoughts?
she is 47 sorry about omitting age!

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Answer by country girl
it depends on how old your friend is. she could be pregnant.

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