Perimenopause Help

Question by Olivia D (Make Love not Sex): Could you give some info on the female sex drive?
I don’t doubt that women enjoy sex and experience orgasms (I mean, come on, it’d just be silly to say they don’t), but are they actively aware of sexuality like men are? Will they actually look at an attractive guy, and feel a rush like men do when they look at women, or is what they look for in a man’s appearance more “cute” than “hot”?

If yes, just how powerful is the rush they feel? Will they become so fixated on the feeling that they can hardly focus on anything else?

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Answer by Sexy Mother Pucker!
well when i see guys i think sexy, and it makes me want them, lol all of them. I do actually start to feel turned on ‘down’ there lol.

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Question by Nicole: Could having only one ovary affect your libido?
I had my son in the beginning of May and by the end of May had an ovary removed. Since then my libido is gone. I don’t know if that has anything to with it or if it’s my hormones. Any thoughts?

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Answer by Jenny
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.

One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn’t the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don’t cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it’s the female version of viagra. I had to find out.

I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don’t get multiple orgasms but I’ve had plenty since being on these herbs. It’s seriously like the best vibrator ride you’ve ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don’t even take them because the urge is just too strong.

Don’t try out single herbs because they don’t do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I’ve tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I’m on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don’t work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won’t have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn’t want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.

Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.

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Question by Psychic Harry, Marriage Helper: What are some ways I could get my libido up?
Since Christmas, I’ve been kind of down physically (I had an injury, but am OK now) and my libido seems down. I’ve only been with the wife 2x and the mistress 1x in that time. I’m just not as frisky. I don’t even feel like watching adult movies.

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Answer by Stupid
I think you first have to make sure you clean it thoroughly…..with soap and water.

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Question by mr.margarita: What are some supplements that my fiance could take to increase her sex drive?
My fiance has a low sex drive due to birth controls and other medicines. What are some things she could take or do that ACTUALLY WORK? She needs something that has actually helped other women with the same problem.

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Answer by Ed z
My wife had the same problem. but the gardener got her over it.

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Question by Omar M: Would you buy a safe pill that could decrease the libido to 0 while on the pill?
If parents think it is important for their daughters to be virgins until she is married, Would you buy a safe pill that could decrease the libido to 0 while on the pill? Thus improving the odds of a virginal bride.

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Answer by PaleCheekedAngel
That’s so stupid and misogynistic.

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Question by jrshannie: Could my libido be low because always going to sleep and waking up late?
I have noticed over the past few months that my libido is almost completely gone, and im only 23!

My sleep pattern recently has been bad too. Could this be the reason?

I still get anywhere from 7-10 hours sleep, but I always go to bed at around 3am-5am and wake up at around 11am-2pm. I have been doing this for about 2 months now.

Could this be affecting testosterone production and so my libido is really low?

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Answer by Styrax O’poponax
You didn’t indicate if anything in your life changed as you started to notice this. Did your activity level change? Did you lose a job? Think back.

Low libido and the sleeping pattern you describe are both signs of depression.

If you decide you need help for that, then go for it. But you should first try getting back onto a normal sleep schedule– go to bed earlier and wake up earlier. This could also improve your depression, if you have that.

If none of this works, move someplace where the women are better looking ^_^

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Question by Beauty4ashes: Could these be symptoms of perimenopause?
Is this normal right before period?
What does it mean to wake up and your feet are hot?
Woke up early in the morning today with burning in my feet. Also had some accompanying anxiety, discomfort in chest, nausea, impending doom. I have been taking Lorazepam intermittently for anxiety. Anybody else experience this? Going to see doc and I may just go off this medicine if it might be causing me problems. Also, experiencing some stomach pain and chills. I am 48 and may be perimenopausal on top of everything.

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Answer by Jane Abelo
It could be that you are beginning menopause. Signs and symptoms of menopause begin to manifest in women within the age of 45 to early 50′s. Estrogen levels decline when a woman is going through menopause and it triggers a lot of physical changes. Missed or irregular periods, hot flashes, night sweats, sleep disturbances, mood swings, depression, tingling extremities, facial hair growth, unexplained weight gain are just some of the signs and symptoms of menopause. You should get yourself checked by your doctor to find out whether what you are going through right now is related to perimenopause or just the side effects of the medicine you are taking. If you want to learn more about the signs and symptoms of menopause and how to find relief here’s some help…

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Question by sunshine39: Could I be pregnant or going through perimenopause?
I am 39 years old, and I got my period last month and it lasted about 7 days – this month it came and it was only 1 day, but still have cramping like it is going to be coming – I have also been running a low grade temp for over a week anywhere from 99 – 99.5 degrees. I am not sure if this is a sign of pregnancy or could I be going through perimenopause. I would appreciate anyone that could help.

Thanks

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Answer by jan
well, from the temps, I would say yes…I’m also just about 37 and having messed up periods…

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