Perimenopause Help

Question by Stefanie P: Is it normal for a lower sex drive after a ovary has been removed?
I had a ovary removed due to cysts and now I Have no sex drive. When I first had the surgery my sex drive sky-rocketed and now I could care less if I ever had sex again. Is this normal?

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Answer by Ege
estrogen and some other hormones are screted by ovaries. Most probaby after removal it took sometime for your body to find a new balance.This side effect might be quite common in this kind of operation. If you’re unhappy with it you may speak to your doctor and have a HRT therapy. Or try chinese herbal medicine, if you find a good practitioner it’s a safer option.

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Question by abcdefg: How to decrease sex drive of female aged 31? My hubby is 38 and is not so keen.?

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Answer by kosha30
prime time masturbate if he don’t want any

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Question by Krissy J: question about male sex drive?
i find my husband’s sex drive is higher when he is under stress, is this linked or is it just a coincidence?

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Answer by Scozbo
Males generally relieve stress through physical work. Sex is one way of relieving tension. Therefore, if he is under greater stress, his sex drive may be higher.
THis is only a guide, however. Discuss the issue with him further.

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Question by Polyservices10 s: How does the IUD mirena affect your s Libido or Sex drive?
For those of you (Women) using the IUD mirena as a form of contraception, I would like to know how does it affect your libido or sex drive.

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Answer by El Terrorista
Kills it. Or at least, something did.

My g/f had a baby and had the mirena inserted about 1 year ago. We have had sex, oh, about 7 times since.

Did I mention my wrist hurts?

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Question by Juggernaut239: Ladies, what are we going to do about the male sex drive?
What can we do?

Either we develop some sort of drug that reduces male sex drive without lowering energy

or Idk

Because I see a lot of questions on here where women ask:

why do men look at porn.

why do men always have to look at me when I wear this.

why are men attracted to women’s body

why does my bf/husband want sex all the time

etc etc

It seems to me that from these questions men and women think quite differently. And that men and women are not living in the same reality.

So yeah I’m sorry ladies if I looked at you but I promise If I do look I don’t mean to it just happens and then I snap out a split second later and realize what I’ve done.

So what is there to be done?

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Answer by Love your life
Hand out free rape whistles.

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Question by dwight817: Can a hemroid be the cause of low male sex drive?
Ok, im a 21 year old male and lately my sex drive has been low…meaning lots of energy the first round of sex, but the second round not so good, it takes a really long time for me to get hard again, and I think it is because of my hemroid that flares up every once in a while. I mean it makes since that if something is flared up in your anus, you probably will not be able to get hard easily or no? I even tried those stupid stamina pills they do nothing!

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Answer by txsteelersfreak
maybe lack of self esteem due to the hemroid?

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Question by Unknown: Would it intimidate you if your wife had a high sex drive?
If your wife had a high sex drive would that be a complete turn off for you? I dunno but a lot of times guys after some years of marriage have to beg their wives to have sex but what if your wife’s stamina was as high as yours? Thanks and dun curse me out cause it’s one of those things you want to know but can’t ask anyone in real life.

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Answer by jammin7000
My wife wants sex more than I do but it’s not really a turnoff. I think I’m pretty normal sexually but I wish I could give her more.

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Question by michelle: female sex drive, is this normal?
my god i can’t keep up with myself. do women somehow hit a massive sexual drive when they’re 24/25?? i have never been so horny in my life. to the point of actually thinking of going to pick up guys just for sex. do all women get like this in their mid 20s??
what do women do when this happens?? how do u deal with the consequences of one night stands?

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Answer by TheEditor
Yes – this is normal in spring/summer if you feel healthy. Hormone storms rage through you.

Shop for some ‘toys’ and indulge yourself. Internet porn and “SoloTouch” web site has stories to help this activity.

I’m actually all for you going out for one night stands (guys do this all the time), but sex is like fire – you should know the physical dangers, but hang out in the bars too much and you get a ‘reputation’ and the bar scene is not a real healthy lifestyle.

Better idea is to call up some old boy pals and if they are not in a serious relationship – ask them if they want to be “friends with benefits”.

It’s much better to have someone you know help scratch the itch than one-night-stands.

Good luck and stay safe.

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Question by MiSS kARi BBy!: male/female sex drive debate?
whats the difference in sex drives for males compared to females as teens to young adults?

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Answer by roadster9879
guys are the most sexually driven in the 18 to 25 bracket.

Women usually don’t peak out until 35 or so, and many even later.

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Question by elizabeth c: Can a person lose their sex drive after they quit drinking alcohol?
Because my husband has quit drinking alcohol and says he has no sex drive now. It really bothers me and i do question the reason but am unsure. I have never had a alcohol problem so i would not fully understand side effects any answers would help! Thank you..
Just to add we always had sex before he actually started drinking..

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Answer by Outspoken but Honest
What he is trying to tell you is you looked better when he was drunk.

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