Perimenopause Help

Question by Frustrated Hubby: Can a lost female sex drive return with no medical assistance to full force like it used to be?
My wife lost her sex drive. She is fully aware of this, and of course does not see the probelm with it. After talking breifly about it, she claims that in 3 weeks when she’s done with school, and has less stress ver money, she will get it back. I am freaking out because it has been months since we’ve had a mutuatlly satisfying sex. 1 month since she just layed there for me. She says she just has not drive what so ever. We’ve had issues in the past but now, after talking and switching some things around, everything is all good How can I make her understand how important this is to our relationship? She loves me, she hugs me kisses me, snuggles with me, holds me, all that other intimate stuff, but when the subject of sex or any sexual advances are made by me, it gets her angry.

Give her space. Ok, I do, I give her plenty of it, hell sometiems I’m so resent full I cna’t even stand to look at her, or if I do start touching her, rubbing her back scratching, I stop myself because I don’t want it to go to far and get in an argument. So I can’t talk to her about it. I cook evey night becasue she gets home later than I do, I do my part around the house, I’m always trying to be romantic.

So my question, again, when all is said and done, when she’s less stressed out and over worked, will her sex drive come back naturally, like she says or is she just feeding me BS so I’ll stay with her?

Thanks.
sunbu: You wouldn’t happen to live in PA would you?? I don’t think that’s a good idea, but honestly, it’s enticing to do something rash like that, but I’m a better person than to do that.
Ok bubba, Thanks, but I’d appreciate answers from females, or males who have been in this type of situation.
Kris, Thanks,! But I usually do try to calmly talk about this and how it’s affecting our relationship. But talking baout it makes her angry, sh doesn’t want to talk about it, she wants to wait and see what happens, she doesn’t want to even try to make me happy in that respect, when she doesn she just lays there, or starts with Ok if I do it will you get off my back about it?
Sue B, Thank You, It’s good to hear from someone who is aware that they have this problem, she doesn’t see it as a problem. Unless That is what makes her angry about the subject? Hmmm becasue she wants it back but doesn’t have one and doesn’t know how to get it back….

Best answer:

Answer by sunbun
find a FWB or move on…sexis definitely a part of marriage….

One of the main reasons I stay single….

typically once one gets marriage the sex slows down considerably

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Question by Exact: What helps get your sex drive/erection in full gear?
I’m just curious if there are any remedies or vitamins or anything that I can take to take my sex drive to the next level. I have no problems what so ever getting erect with girlfriends but with new sex partners, my nerves take over and they prevent me from getting erect.

Any advice that you can give or any recommendations for getting a penis erect and staying erect?

I heard Ginseng works but i’m not sure. Or how about extenze? Goatweed?

Any advice is appreciated! Thanks

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Answer by Prodigial Mouse
If you’re not comfortable in random sexual encounters, which it appears from your statement; you’ve been involved in quite a few. Then why are you going out and having them? You don’t need to sleep with a ton of random women to assert your manliness. If you’re not comfortable having sex outside of a relationship, then don’t do it. You’ll find a lot more women that respect you for your courtesy.

However, if you truly need to bust a nut- despite your anxiety and body telling you that it’s a bad idea; viagra should work.

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