Perimenopause Help » Help http://perimenopausehelp.net Tue, 22 May 2012 15:40:53 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1 Q&A: Is there any kind of supplement that I can slip in my husband’s protein shakes to help increase his libido? http://perimenopausehelp.net/qa-is-there-any-kind-of-supplement-that-i-can-slip-in-my-husbands-protein-shakes-to-help-increase-his-libido/ http://perimenopausehelp.net/qa-is-there-any-kind-of-supplement-that-i-can-slip-in-my-husbands-protein-shakes-to-help-increase-his-libido/#comments Fri, 18 May 2012 13:39:37 +0000 Admin http://perimenopausehelp.net/qa-is-there-any-kind-of-supplement-that-i-can-slip-in-my-husbands-protein-shakes-to-help-increase-his-libido/ Question by Leticia: Is there any kind of supplement that I can slip in my husband’s protein shakes to help increase his libido?
My husband is 40 years old and although we have regular sex it’s not as frequent as I’d like it to be. We both work out alot so I’m wondering if there is any kind of supplements that someone can recommend to me that will help increase his libido. Natural supplements no viagra suggestions please.

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Answer by Jess W.
There is a drink called “Niagra.” I’ve only seen it in stores once in my life, but supposedly it tastes great and increases your libido. It doesn’t have an effect on you like Viagra does, it just makes you horny. I’ve personally never tried it though. I’m sure you could look it up on google or something though. Good luck!

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I really don’t understand why my sex drive has increased so much lately.. I mean it’s outrageous! I guess I need to find a FWB or Boyfriend soon.. Anybody know what could be the source of this increase??

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Answer by Lily Lovee
sounds like hormones to me

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]]> http://perimenopausehelp.net/qa-im-an-18-year-old-female-college-student-and-my-sex-drive-is-unusually-high-help/feed/ 2 Q&A: Help please! Does regular female masturbation affect sex/ sex drive? http://perimenopausehelp.net/qa-help-please-does-regular-female-masturbation-affect-sex-sex-drive/ http://perimenopausehelp.net/qa-help-please-does-regular-female-masturbation-affect-sex-sex-drive/#comments Thu, 03 May 2012 23:40:53 +0000 Admin http://perimenopausehelp.net/qa-help-please-does-regular-female-masturbation-affect-sex-sex-drive/ Question by Jim N: Help please! Does regular female masturbation affect sex/ sex drive?
For any of the ladies out their please help, let me know if female masturbation negatively affects their sex drive! Girlfriend never is in the mood anymore (ie maybe once a month…), also noticed she masturbates more than she used to. Wondering if there was any correlation between the two occurrences. just looking for some answers. thanks.

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Answer by Maria
Nope, and even if it did, there’s nothing you could do about it. You should ask her if anything’s changed. Perhaps she’s stressed.

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I have been married for 4 years now, been with my husband for 8 years. So i am 28 he is 29 latetly i have been having a more sex drive than my husband. well i thik it has always been like this.. now society has told us that guys think about sex every 6 seconds, that they want it all the time blah blah blah.. i can honestly say that a whole month can go by without nothing… to me that is very very very very frustrating.. every time i ask him what is wrong he simply says he isnt into it or that hes too tired ( hes a car mechanic dn carried heavy stuff all day) its not an excuse but hey im going with it. im seriously thinking of having a guy friend do me a favor but i dont want to have one if i want to do it with my husband. Now i know he dosent have someone on the side since i know where he is constantly (he works with my brother ) is this normal? if not is there a drug i can slip him to lift his sex drive?? i hav no idea what to do..guys anything??

PS we have no kids so…..its not like they are “in the way”
No i have not cheated yet. and no he has no pin up models. i’ve tried sexy lingerie, porno and he just asks to change the channel!!! i swear i have no clue what i am suppose to do. is this normal? do i just prune up about sex? depend on the vibrator ???what???

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Answer by Deviant
If you cheat on him…..you’re a whore, and he should leave u instantly. Better confront him about this, before you do something stupid.

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its not that i dont want to. i want to want to have sex(a lot). its just hard to get turned on or in the mood. its not a physical thing or mental trauma or anything like that. i just have a low sex drive. what can i do?
there is nothing wrong with my fiance, he is perfect. we’ve tried all that getting into the mood stuff. its just difficult

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Answer by mannasmom
eat some dark chocolate

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So, my fiance and I won’t be getting married for a couple of years (until we both finish college and save up enough money). The problem is that neither of us wants to have intercourse until we are married. He definitely expresses that he isn’t ready yet. However, I keep physically desiring to have sex often, although I mentally want to wait. Mostly this happens when we are being intimate in other ways.

My fiance and I are very close, but I feel like every time I bring up the subject of sex, he feels uncomfortable, so I can’t even talk to him about that sort of thing. He knows how I feel and we’ve talked about it, but he does not have my problems. He is easily able to control these urges without having to put forth a lot of effort and doesn’t feel a need to talk about it. He doesn’t understand why I have such trouble and thinks I should do as he does (AKA: be master of mental meditation).

Now, I’m not looking for comments like “does he still have his manly parts”, “you must be a dog”, or any such junk.

What I ask for is some advice on how to deal with these urges constructively. I’m not into self loving (doesn’t tickle my proverbial fancy). I don’t watch porn. I just don’t like it (doesn’t do anything for me). I only want my fiance, but I want him too much! I don’t want to hurt the one I love in any way, but this is just hard to deal with. I need ideas…

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What I ask is a simple way to deal with
Btw, RJ, be more careful with what you say.

My fiance was raped when he was young. That’s part of why he’s uncomfortable about having sex.

I 100% will never push him. That’s why I’m trying to not bring up the subject too much. That’s why I’m trying to deal with my own problems on my own. I am letting him have his space and heal. I will be there for him, but I am going to deal with my own desires for me as well.

That’s why I’m asking for some ideas anonymously.
Also, we are currently enjoying oral stimulation and manual stimulation if that helps you with your answers.

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Answer by starstrukk
Well, when you say that you don’t want intercourse until marriage, that leaves out oral and manual stimulation, right? You could rely on those to get you through the next few years and deal with those urges.
If you want to save that, too, well, you’re SOL.

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]]> http://perimenopausehelp.net/female-sex-drive-help/feed/ 4 Is there a pill that exists that will increase female libido and sex drive and help me get wet? ? http://perimenopausehelp.net/is-there-a-pill-that-exists-that-will-increase-female-libido-and-sex-drive-and-help-me-get-wet/ http://perimenopausehelp.net/is-there-a-pill-that-exists-that-will-increase-female-libido-and-sex-drive-and-help-me-get-wet/#comments Tue, 27 Mar 2012 15:39:49 +0000 Admin http://perimenopausehelp.net/is-there-a-pill-that-exists-that-will-increase-female-libido-and-sex-drive-and-help-me-get-wet/ Question by : Is there a pill that exists that will increase female libido and sex drive and help me get wet? ?
I’m desperate. For some reason the past few months Im
Finding it really difficult to orgasm or get wet! I’m really frustrated, i wish I had a pill I could take like a female Viagra to help me. It’s really getting me down :( ! U know any gd pills that work? Thanks

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Answer by Lozza
There is actually a female viagra, called “Intrinsa”. You can get it on the NHS I believe. Hope that helps! :)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-444518/The-female-Viagra-hits-NHS.html

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/6495211.stm

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]]> http://perimenopausehelp.net/is-there-a-pill-that-exists-that-will-increase-female-libido-and-sex-drive-and-help-me-get-wet/feed/ 2 How can I help my diminished sex drive? http://perimenopausehelp.net/how-can-i-help-my-diminished-sex-drive/ http://perimenopausehelp.net/how-can-i-help-my-diminished-sex-drive/#comments Wed, 14 Mar 2012 05:39:11 +0000 Admin http://perimenopausehelp.net/how-can-i-help-my-diminished-sex-drive/ Question by ellagirl: How can I help my diminished sex drive?
I don’t have much desire to have sex. I am wondering how I can help increase my sex drive. I am 35 years old, and I am a woman. I am in a committed relationship, but I was wondering if my low self drive could have to do with my health, like maybe there could be something wrong. Could this be a possibility? What can I do to help myself, and are there any tests that I should have done?

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Answer by Blue Eyez
There could be many reasons. Firstly do you take regular medications. Some medications can upset the sex drive. If your too stressed over tired. Don’t help either. I would go see your doctor and have a chat.

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My bf has a very low sex drive, it’s driving me crazy! He never wants to do anything!
Im tired of having to be the one to ask and try to persuade him to be in the mood…
It’s starting to make me feel insecure. I try everything, from wearing sexy outfits to talking to him about it. It just keeps getting worse. He’s only 22!
HELP!

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Answer by M
umm yeah…i know how that feels to always be the one to initiate it…maybe he thinks he is not going to satisfy you or something..ask him…

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What hormones are needed to help lost weight and regain your libido during menopause

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Answer by hiimben2k5
Hormones don’t help lose weight. A proper diet and the proper physical exercise does. Visit a personal trainer for the plan to best suit your needs based on your weight and active levels.

As far as regaining libido during menopause, estrogen re-uptake would be your best option here. I recommend looking into vitamins, most commonly labeled as Premarin or Cenestin. These vitamins will greatly aid during menopause. Please consult with your family physician for more information.

Best of luck.

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