Perimenopause Help

Question by JakePatter: What should a husband do if wife has low sex drive?
It’s going on years and wife says she has no drive. I pick up slack at home, helping bath kids, fill her car with gas, dishes and yet she won’t even try to have an intimate relationship. She won’t read up on what might cause the problem, could really careless. I’m dying to connect emotionally and physically. She still dresses provocatively when going to work, would she still care if her boob’s can be seen if she didn’t have a sex drive? Help!

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Answer by Eric L
remind her that the difference between a marriage and roommates is sex. The difference between friends and a sexual relationship is sex. Drag her to counseling as well.

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Question by : My husband is not interested in sex and I have a very high drive. How can I make myself not for him?
I am 29 and hubby is 32 a good man and father. He has lost interest insex but my drive is very high. I don’t wanna bother him so how do I go about decreasing my sex drive so I won’t bother him for sex? I love him and understand and don’t wanna be a burden on him. Please help.

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Answer by Marina the Uncola
There is a happy medium somewhere. If he has suddenly lost his drive, it would probably be a good idea to find out why.

Is he recently into porn?

Is it a medical thing?

Do you suspect at all that he’s cheating?

I would look for the reason and then deal with it from there.

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Question by shlomogon: Is perimenopause an acceptable excuse for a lack of intimacy between husband and wife?

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Answer by Blunt
Yes. No libido, no s ex.

Good luck

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Question by justlookin4friendsonly: Is getting dry during sex with my husband another sign of perimenopause?
I’ve had other signs of perimenopause, I’m 36, he’s 41. It got SOOO painful it hurt him, then me! I need to go to my midwife soon. I’ve also been experiencing symptoms of pregnancy.
Is there ANYTHING my midwife can prescribe for the dryness?

It’s affecting my relationship, we hardly have sex anymore & my husband said he’s losing interest & I feel guilty, though I know I can’t control it, I know it’s affecting both of us.

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Answer by fyre girl
I would definitely approach your midwife about the possibility of pregnancy. I don’t think that getting dry is a sign of menopause. I mean, there are teenagers out there that get dry all the time. There are also MANY women of the ages 18-45 that get dry while having sex. I would suggest some lube or something to help with the dryness. I hope that helps you out.

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