Perimenopause Help

Question by Jess: Is it normal to lose your sex drive? (female, in a relationship)?
I’ve never had this problem before but for the last 1 or 2 months it’s just been disappearing and I haven’t had an orgasm for about a month or so! I love my boyfriend, but at the moment we don’t have the most exciting relationship, he is always busy etc and we didn’t even celebrate our anniversary in the end. I would never cheat on him but a new friend recently told me they really like me, and I find them very attractive but I would never go there even if i were single as they’re also very arrogant. I’m sure this hasn’t affected how I feel about my boyfriend but he is worried it has.
Also we were going away for our next birthday together but for money and family reasons he no longer wants to go, I know it’s just a little thing but it really upset me as I was really looking forward to it and I feel bad for being so annoyed/upset over it.
If it has come down to loving and feeling really comfortable with my boyfriend, but little else, would it be wrong to leave him? we are only 20 and if it doesn’t change, which it probably won’t as we are both studying for a few more years, it doesn’t seem like enough, but is that shallow? Is it probably just because of my relationship that I’m suddenly lacking in sex drive so much, or is it more probably something else?
Thanks!

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Answer by Kay Bee
I dont’ have any desire for it if I don’t like how it is done.

There are also times when I am just tired and exhausted.

Then there are times when I am annoyed at him or something else in my life.

Also, it can get monotonous if you go at it every week or everyday like it is food.

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Question by Young boi: Can A young female lose her sex drive?
I am almost 18 old,I decided to be celibate after me and my boyfriend seperated,its been 2 months and sex hasnt cross my mind like it used to,when i used to look at pornos i would want to do what they wanna do and when i see people kissing I tend to act like a child when they see grownups kissing but now i no longer have the urge.Is this normal?

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Answer by skip22ha
It can and does happen

You’re prolly still getting over your ex tho

Give it a little time

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Question by Colette E: What hormones need to be replaced to help lose weight and regain the libido?
What hormones are needed to help lost weight and regain your libido during menopause

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Answer by hiimben2k5
Hormones don’t help lose weight. A proper diet and the proper physical exercise does. Visit a personal trainer for the plan to best suit your needs based on your weight and active levels.

As far as regaining libido during menopause, estrogen re-uptake would be your best option here. I recommend looking into vitamins, most commonly labeled as Premarin or Cenestin. These vitamins will greatly aid during menopause. Please consult with your family physician for more information.

Best of luck.

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Question by The Cop: Is it true Rogaine causes you to lose your sex drive and have weaker erections?
I’ve used a lot gel, so I’ve noticed I’m having some hair loss. I saw the Rogaine commercial and I started to research before buying this. I see comments of men saying they’ve lost their sex drive, weaker erections, and so on. Though I’m not sexually active right now, I still wouldn’t want that happening to me, because I don’t know if these effects stay for ever in the body. Thanks for the help, I appreciate it!

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Answer by livewire9
no,,, good grief… ive been on it for almost 15 years… lol

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Question by elizabeth c: Can a person lose their sex drive after they quit drinking alcohol?
Because my husband has quit drinking alcohol and says he has no sex drive now. It really bothers me and i do question the reason but am unsure. I have never had a alcohol problem so i would not fully understand side effects any answers would help! Thank you..
Just to add we always had sex before he actually started drinking..

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Answer by Outspoken but Honest
What he is trying to tell you is you looked better when he was drunk.

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Question by : Why do I lose my appetite and libido when I cry?
But after an hour or so, my appetite and libido comes back. Why is that?

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Answer by Me! :- )
Your appetite and libido are dependent upon your sense of well being.

Feel bad for you, a guy who is crying in life? What is going on in your world that is making you so sad and bringing you down so much?

Me! :- l

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Question by Sandor: Why did my wife lose all sex drive when she started the depo shot?
My wife suffers from chronic depression and for a while she had no sex drive. Then she stopped taking her birth control and turned into a nympho (lol). Then she started taking the depo shot(since we were having so much sex) and it killed her sex drive again. It’s starting to damage our marriage.

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Answer by kim
it is a side effect of the shot. there are other birth control opposition out there try those

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Question by Angela: Do men ever lose their libido? Or at least get to a point where they can control it if necessary?
I lose my libido whenever circumstances aren’t favorable for sex. My on/off libido has driven my husband crazy. He goes bonkers if he doesn’t have sex on a regular basis. He finally had an affair when I lost my libido after our third child. Do men ever lose their libidos? Or do they just keep going and going until they’re old and wrinkly and dead?

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Answer by Cal Stoltz
You’re supposed to have sex with him no matter what you heartless bitch

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