Perimenopause Help

Question by Krissy J: question about male sex drive?
i find my husband’s sex drive is higher when he is under stress, is this linked or is it just a coincidence?

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Answer by Scozbo
Males generally relieve stress through physical work. Sex is one way of relieving tension. Therefore, if he is under greater stress, his sex drive may be higher.
THis is only a guide, however. Discuss the issue with him further.

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Question by Juggernaut239: Ladies, what are we going to do about the male sex drive?
What can we do?

Either we develop some sort of drug that reduces male sex drive without lowering energy

or Idk

Because I see a lot of questions on here where women ask:

why do men look at porn.

why do men always have to look at me when I wear this.

why are men attracted to women’s body

why does my bf/husband want sex all the time

etc etc

It seems to me that from these questions men and women think quite differently. And that men and women are not living in the same reality.

So yeah I’m sorry ladies if I looked at you but I promise If I do look I don’t mean to it just happens and then I snap out a split second later and realize what I’ve done.

So what is there to be done?

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Answer by Love your life
Hand out free rape whistles.

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Question by BlackDahlia: What’s the best herbal supplement I can get at a health food store or GNC that will increase male libido?
Just need something to increase libido and/or testosterone. Nothing for ED or impotence. Just want to increase the interest/drive. I want something I can get at a local health food store that’s a natural herb and is safe to take.

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Answer by john h
Try Holland & Barrett they are a reputable company

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Question by dwight817: Can a hemroid be the cause of low male sex drive?
Ok, im a 21 year old male and lately my sex drive has been low…meaning lots of energy the first round of sex, but the second round not so good, it takes a really long time for me to get hard again, and I think it is because of my hemroid that flares up every once in a while. I mean it makes since that if something is flared up in your anus, you probably will not be able to get hard easily or no? I even tried those stupid stamina pills they do nothing!

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Answer by txsteelersfreak
maybe lack of self esteem due to the hemroid?

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Question by i_am_me_1981: Is it possible to remove male sex drive?
Male, 26. Throughout all my life, there has never been a single female interested in me, ever. I’m not rich, have no time since I’m always working to pay the bills, am ugly, and have no meatspace social skills. For whatever reason there’s been a couple of gay guys, but unfortunately I’m not gay and am just not interested… not that I wouldn’t like to be sometimes. Virtually all women, on the other hand, have been cruel to me and nothing else.

I’m married now, due to politics (my one female friend needs a visa), but she’s not interested in me one bit and refuses to do anything, ever. My sex drive has caused me nothing but grief ever since it’s started up. I’m growing tired of net porn, and don’t want to spend any more time with it, and no more time looking for women, but I’m drawn to them both against my will. How can I get rid of it? I do a lot of physical work and don’t really want to drop muscle mass, so I’d prefer not to reduce testosterone levels to near nothing through whatever means. Any ideas?

Note: Please don’t go into “you deserve a satisfying sex life” and so forth. It’s not going to happen, please don’t taunt me anymore. I’ve heard those empty words, but unless you’re female and going to volunteer, if that’s what you’re planning on answering, just let it drop. Thanks.

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Question by : What is the average 40yr old male sex drive (in age gap relationships)?
Here is the situation–

I am an 18 year old girl and recently started dating a 40yr old man (we get along famously, really). I keep reading that the male sex drive starts to go down at the age of 40 but some of these articles are very generalized and misleading, assuming that the 40yr old man has a wife within his age range whom has aged just as much as he has.

My question to be specific is whether or not the only reason these articles and information are generally saying that the average 40yr old libido goes down is because he is just not interested in having sex with an average 40yr old woman, or whether his sex drive goes down in general? Should his sex drive still remain at a wonderful peak with the idea of having sex with a younger/more fit 18 year old?

Extra: the first time i gave him a bj, after he came, he said something along the lines of nobody being able to make him do that in a long time. It was a little weird and I wasn’t entirely sure how to take it?

Any advice and insight would be really helpful, I think way too much about it. :[

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Answer by Chris Ancor
If he is otherwise healthy it will not decline at all until maybe 60.

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Question by Ken-o: Can the sound of a crying baby have an effect on male libido?
I’m surrounded by neighbours with new born babies, I can’t seem to you know get things done lately.. Whenever the crying starts I just go blank. I have a theory that crying babies do affect the male libido. Anyone aware of any studies or have information that substaniate this?

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Answer by Dragontattoo
Yes, and actually the hormonal levels change to accommodate fatherhood, so you will take care of a child. I did some research on this not too long ago, but I don’t have the websites that I found this information….

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Question by rubi s: Does Vitex lower male sex drive?
really don’t want to get into this, because a bunch of people will probably rant at me about it. Bottom line is, I am trying to be relatively spiritual. I am practically addicted to masturbation. Like, 2-5 times a day. I really don’t want to go through an actual doctor for a prescription, and I want something I can pick up in a store than can just lower my sex drive.

I was looking up a lot of articles, and Vitex was listed as an anaphrodisiac. In the Vitamin Store, it’s listed as a treatment to relieve PMS. Does it act as both?

If there is anything else that I can get without a prescription that will lower male sex drive, please tell me. Thank you.
Thanks, but… I don’t want that. I just want it so it isn’t so riduclous and controlling of my actions.

Anyone have any clue about the herb I mentioned, though?

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Answer by guru
Consult a doctor, but you sound normal to me!
I would not change anything

It’s like how often to shower?
Between once a year and 5~8 times a day is normal!

Hope it helps you

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Question by AllorNothing AKA The Black MikeT: Why doesn’t the male sex drive come with an on and off switch?

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Answer by Augustus
It does, picture your grandma naked. That should turn it off.

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Question by Yanling C: About the Male Sex Drive?
How come guys that aren’t brave enough to ask a good looking girl out, will sleep (FWB-thing?) with an unattractive tramp? Is a male’s sex drive stronger than his attraction to seek out a pretty girl for dating? Recently, I was informed by a friend that certain man was interested in asking me out. Fine, but when he never did, I was told that he has a floozy on the side just for sex that keeps him occupied. Obviously, I lost all interest. But is this true of the average male? Would he choose sex over a relationship every time?

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Answer by Jacob O’rourke
i wouldn’t.. always

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