Perimenopause Help

Question by Jess: Is it normal to lose your sex drive? (female, in a relationship)?
I’ve never had this problem before but for the last 1 or 2 months it’s just been disappearing and I haven’t had an orgasm for about a month or so! I love my boyfriend, but at the moment we don’t have the most exciting relationship, he is always busy etc and we didn’t even celebrate our anniversary in the end. I would never cheat on him but a new friend recently told me they really like me, and I find them very attractive but I would never go there even if i were single as they’re also very arrogant. I’m sure this hasn’t affected how I feel about my boyfriend but he is worried it has.
Also we were going away for our next birthday together but for money and family reasons he no longer wants to go, I know it’s just a little thing but it really upset me as I was really looking forward to it and I feel bad for being so annoyed/upset over it.
If it has come down to loving and feeling really comfortable with my boyfriend, but little else, would it be wrong to leave him? we are only 20 and if it doesn’t change, which it probably won’t as we are both studying for a few more years, it doesn’t seem like enough, but is that shallow? Is it probably just because of my relationship that I’m suddenly lacking in sex drive so much, or is it more probably something else?
Thanks!

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Answer by Kay Bee
I dont’ have any desire for it if I don’t like how it is done.

There are also times when I am just tired and exhausted.

Then there are times when I am annoyed at him or something else in my life.

Also, it can get monotonous if you go at it every week or everyday like it is food.

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Question by jesusfreaktabbie: Normal Sex Drive? How many times a week should a normal 33 female want to have sex?
I am a single mom of 4 . I have been without any sex for 5 years. Not that I am dating again I seem to want it a lot. Is that normal? How many times a week does a normal 33 year old have sex? married ? dating ? or not married and just having friends with benefits sex?
What, if any, aphrodisiac have you used and what doesn’t work?

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Answer by meagan
i am a sex atic. atleast 46780-96 7864526857768967689684676898u times a week

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Question by : Is a high sex drive normal for a female?
I have a long term boyfriend, we don’t live together but when I see him I always want to have sex with him and even when I’m not with him I want to and I think about it every day at least once. Is that normal? I’m 25!

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Answer by Hey you
definetly. use it while it last coz its not gonna last forever! lol

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Question by Krislynn: Is it normal to have a strong sex drive during pregnancy?
I’ve always had a normal sex drive, but now it seems like it has peaked beyond reason! Please do not give me inappropriate answers.
Yes it is wonderful! I’m just embarassed about it I guess.

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Answer by sdt33
Many other people report the same experience as you have. It’s very common to experience a peak during this time.

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Question by : Is it normal for my libido to be sky rocketing at 14 years old?
i am 14 years old and my libido is sky high. my hormones are rageing like mad. I dont feel that i need to have sex, but my body thinks otherwise. what should I do to decrease my libido, and is this normal for my age?

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Answer by Courtney
Get LAIDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Question by austins312: How long till sex drive is normal?
I have taken Zoloft for nearly two weeks then stopped for almost 3 weeks now. I am still on Focalin. How much longer till my sex drive is back to normal? I have noticed decreased libido, mostly from the Zoloft.

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Answer by F P
Ask your doctor if that’s a side effect of your medication.

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Question by Stefanie P: Is it normal for a lower sex drive after a ovary has been removed?
I had a ovary removed due to cysts and now I Have no sex drive. When I first had the surgery my sex drive sky-rocketed and now I could care less if I ever had sex again. Is this normal?

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Answer by Ege
estrogen and some other hormones are screted by ovaries. Most probaby after removal it took sometime for your body to find a new balance.This side effect might be quite common in this kind of operation. If you’re unhappy with it you may speak to your doctor and have a HRT therapy. Or try chinese herbal medicine, if you find a good practitioner it’s a safer option.

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Question by michelle: female sex drive, is this normal?
my god i can’t keep up with myself. do women somehow hit a massive sexual drive when they’re 24/25?? i have never been so horny in my life. to the point of actually thinking of going to pick up guys just for sex. do all women get like this in their mid 20s??
what do women do when this happens?? how do u deal with the consequences of one night stands?

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Answer by TheEditor
Yes – this is normal in spring/summer if you feel healthy. Hormone storms rage through you.

Shop for some ‘toys’ and indulge yourself. Internet porn and “SoloTouch” web site has stories to help this activity.

I’m actually all for you going out for one night stands (guys do this all the time), but sex is like fire – you should know the physical dangers, but hang out in the bars too much and you get a ‘reputation’ and the bar scene is not a real healthy lifestyle.

Better idea is to call up some old boy pals and if they are not in a serious relationship – ask them if they want to be “friends with benefits”.

It’s much better to have someone you know help scratch the itch than one-night-stands.

Good luck and stay safe.

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Question by Future Rich Girl: Is it normal for a 25 yr old female to have no sex drive?
I am 25 and married for a year and a half.
I honestly have close to no sex drive.
I mostly just have sex to make my husband happy.
We are really happy together, so it’s nothing wrong with the relationship.
I am really busy in college so that may have a little do with it.
But I used to have a great sex drive and now it’s totally gone.

Is this normal?
What can I do about it?

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Answer by ??G?AC3??
your doctor can check your hormone levels, maybe they are off. Also, depression can make you lose your sex drive, could you be depressed?

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Question by Roxy: male sex drive?? How many times a week is normal??!!?
Im married and we have been together for 10 years now, and he wants to have sex every day, we could have sex like 3 times a week and he tells me its not enough… Well then what the hell is normal?..Does he just have a high sex drive?
and we are not bf and gf, yeah back then we had sex when ever we could get it, but now we are married ,work and we have a toddler running @ the house..situation most definetly not the same

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Answer by Sarah
Guys are horny all the time!
So he probably does!

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