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Question by WTFK: Why has my libido gone down since my wife has become pregnant?
Since my wife has become pregnant my libido has gone completely down, and it has been over a month since we had sex last. I do not know why but I do not get turned on anymore, not at all by no one. I believe it will soon crush my marriage.
I would like to know if there are any articles or anything in the subject. If it is normal, if there are other people out there with the same problem, and how some of these people overcame it.

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Answer by ?Kimmeh? ??
Maybe your subconscious thinks that it’s harmful to the baby if you have sex. In most cases, if there aren’t any complications in pregnancy, it’s perfectly fine… just avoid the super kinky stuff, obviously. My husband did the same thing for awhile… he was afraid of hurting the growing baby in me. Maybe you should discuss this with your wife? Maybe her libido has gone away a little too? During my second pregnancy, I had no sex drive what so ever. It’s tough to get through in marriage, but if you can both compromise … things will work out.

Because both of us didn’t have much a sex drive at various points, we would simply try to spice our sex life up. Ease the worries of pregnancy. Sometimes when I didn’t want to have sex, I would compromise and maybe do other things foreplay related. Same with my husband. You can still get releif without actually having to have intercourse.

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Question by WTFK: Why has my libido gone down since my wife has become pregnant?
Since my wife has become pregnant my libido has gone completely down, and it has been over a month since we had sex last. I do not know why but I do not get turned on anymore, not at all by no one. I believe it will soon crush my marriage.
I would like to know if there are any articles or anything in the subject. If it is normal, if there are other people out there with the same problem, and how some of these people overcame it.

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Answer by J?K?M
I think it’s just a mental thing you’re going through, because you know that there is a baby in there. And, why would you let something like this crush your marriage??? You need to try to work through it!!! Talk to your wife about, and if you need more help, talk to a professional! I’m sure you’re not the first guy to freak out like this!

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Question by WTFK: why has my libido gone down since my wife has become pregnant?
Since my wife has become pregnant my libido has gone completely down, and it has been over a month since we had sex last. I do not know why but I do not get turned on anymore, not at all by no one. I believe it will soon crush my marriage.
I would like to know if there are any articles or anything in the subject. If it is normal, if there are other people out there with the same problem, and how some of these people overcame it.

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Answer by Rebecca
maybe you are looking at her as a mom and don’t see the sexiness any more?

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Question by Dear Jane…: Can you take herbal supplements that will increase your sex drive while pregnant?
They are all natural, so no harm, right?

My drive has done way down the tubes, just like it did with my first pregnancy, and I feel bad but I don’t want to leave my husband totally out of the game. He needs sex often to be a normal person in his mind.

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Answer by steffy baby
u cld always please him otherways.

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Question by : the pregnant female sex drive?
ok well im having a horrible vicious desire to have sex with my boyfriend but im curious our sex drive biologically is for us to reproduce but im already pregnant so why am i biologically like what is the brain doing thats making my sex drive even more like hardcore even though im already prego?

btw i find this wierd but im havin a protein deficiency right now and for sum reason its like im just attacking my boyfriend just to have him cum in me why is that? i mean im already prego so why is my sex drive so extreme where i absolutely hve to have my boyfriend cum in me like 4 times a day? like when he didnt come in me the other day i bitched at him real bad is there somethin in his sperm that my body wants or wat?

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Answer by Mother to Bella and baby Cade
Its very normal during pregnancy to have an increase in sex drive. during pregnancy, your hormones are going crazy. woman either want sex all the time or they don’t want it at all. every woman is different. you wanting sex a lot, is very normal. your hormones are all over the place. it will go back to normal once you have the baby. buy enjoy it while you can.

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Question by Kate: Is it common for libido to increase like crazy when pregnant?
Ever since I go pregnant my libido has been through the roof. Is this common or am I the only one? Has anyone else gone through this or is going through it too?
OK, I feel a little better now. But I still feel like it is seriously out of control. How do I know what is normal and what might be a problem?

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Answer by broken_faery_wings13
Mine went down dramatically for the first 3 months but now I can’t get enough!

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Question by WTFK: Why has my libido gone down since my wife has become pregnant?
Since my wife has become pregnant my libido has gone completely down, and it has been over a month since we had sex last. I do not know why but I do not get turned on anymore, not at all by no one. I believe it will soon crush my marriage.
I would like to know if there are any articles or anything in the subject. If it is normal, if there are other people out there with the same problem, and how some of these people overcame it.

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Answer by Henry
You could try viagra but I will tell ya what, that stuff sucks. The side effects are terrible. Have you ever tried a sexual enhancer? I was in your situation, like I said, viagra was tried but it wasn’t for me considering the side effects overwhelm the pleasures of it. I found this natural herbal enhancer and figured what the heck, if it’s natural it must be great and plus it said no side effects. I tried it and after about two days of taking it I was just horny like a mad man. All the time, I have erections that want to stand straight up and the orgasms are to die for. The stuff was called vigrx plus and I saved on it at the time at hughs-reviews.com , You should check it out. I love the fact it’s made from a researched blend of herbs that seem to do the trick for me atleast.

Good luck and I hope this helps.

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Question by Linda S: Any suggestions for getting pregnant if I’m in Perimenopause?
I’m 43 & have never had a problem conceiving when we wanted children in the past. I always got pregnant within a couple of months of trying. My husband & I would like one last child, but my Dr. says I am in Perimenopause, & it will be very difficult, if not impossible, to become pregnant. We have been trying for about 10 months now..even tried Clomid, the fertility drug, for 2 months. Anyone out there have any suggestions for getting pregnant during this phase of life? My 3 children were all born while I was in my mid to late 30′s & early 40′s. We’d love to have one more baby.

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Answer by Saggyrl
I read that 43 is the age when it becomes almost impossible to get PG for any woman… that said, it does still happen! If I were you I would try IVF, it will probably be your best hope. You should have an ultrasound to see how many follicles you have left. Would you be willing to use an egg donor if need be?

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Question by sunshine39: Could I be pregnant or going through perimenopause?
I am 39 years old, and I got my period last month and it lasted about 7 days – this month it came and it was only 1 day, but still have cramping like it is going to be coming – I have also been running a low grade temp for over a week anywhere from 99 – 99.5 degrees. I am not sure if this is a sign of pregnancy or could I be going through perimenopause. I would appreciate anyone that could help.

Thanks

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Answer by jan
well, from the temps, I would say yes…I’m also just about 37 and having messed up periods…

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Question by bride2be: I’m 30 and have some perimenopause symtoms can I still get pregnant?
I am 30 years old and on another posting I did someone said I could be peri-menopausal, I looked up symptoms and I have some symptoms, my mom was 34 when she started menopause, my fiance and I are planning on me getting a tubal reversal this year, if I am peri-menopausal will I still be able to get pregnant?

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Answer by loves christmas lights
Yes you can.

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