Perimenopause Help

Question by sadeiez143: I want to find a way to decrease my libido any suggestions?
I am 24 and so is my partner we have 3 children between the two of us and I swear I feel like I am a sexaholic. I feel like I am almost forcing him to sleep with me and I don’t want that feeling I want it to go away for good. I never want to feel like I am making him do something he doesn’t want too. I just need to find something to safely take away the urge to do things anymore. I can’t get chemical castoration because I am not some type of offender and I can’t get myself fixed by a doctor untill I am 25 that is almost a whole year away. I don’t want to feel like this for a year. But that is the only thing that I have found that will help lower my libido. Please if you have any insight on what I can safely do let me know.

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Answer by yakity_one
Try masturbation, it will give you the relief you need and is very normal and satisfying.
You might want to go to Allexperts.com, click on Health and Fitness, click on sexuality, and then female masturbation. There is only one expert, her name is Samantha, click on Ask a Question, explain your situation and she will help you through it. She is very loving and thorough.
Good luck!

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Question by Linda S: Any suggestions for getting pregnant if I’m in Perimenopause?
I’m 43 & have never had a problem conceiving when we wanted children in the past. I always got pregnant within a couple of months of trying. My husband & I would like one last child, but my Dr. says I am in Perimenopause, & it will be very difficult, if not impossible, to become pregnant. We have been trying for about 10 months now..even tried Clomid, the fertility drug, for 2 months. Anyone out there have any suggestions for getting pregnant during this phase of life? My 3 children were all born while I was in my mid to late 30′s & early 40′s. We’d love to have one more baby.

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Answer by Saggyrl
I read that 43 is the age when it becomes almost impossible to get PG for any woman… that said, it does still happen! If I were you I would try IVF, it will probably be your best hope. You should have an ultrasound to see how many follicles you have left. Would you be willing to use an egg donor if need be?

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