Perimenopause Help

Question by Leticia: Is there any kind of supplement that I can slip in my husband’s protein shakes to help increase his libido?
My husband is 40 years old and although we have regular sex it’s not as frequent as I’d like it to be. We both work out alot so I’m wondering if there is any kind of supplements that someone can recommend to me that will help increase his libido. Natural supplements no viagra suggestions please.

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Answer by Jess W.
There is a drink called “Niagra.” I’ve only seen it in stores once in my life, but supposedly it tastes great and increases your libido. It doesn’t have an effect on you like Viagra does, it just makes you horny. I’ve personally never tried it though. I’m sure you could look it up on google or something though. Good luck!

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Question by Kaliko: Are there ANY natural products that actually increase sex drive in a female?

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Answer by Sage Mountain
Schisandra chinensis-wu wei zi
Schizandra is a famous tonic historically consumed by Chinese royalty. It is an excellent sexual tonic when consumed regularly. It is said to help produce abundant sexual fluids, increase sexual endurance and to strengthen the whole body.

Epimedium spp.-yin yang huo-Horny Goat Weed
Epimedium is a powerful sexual tonic and Asian people consider it an aphrodisiac.

Turnera diffusa-Damiana
Traditionally used as a aphrodisiac, especially for women, Damiana supports Kidney Essence and has a restorative effect on the central nervous system.

Dendrobium-she hu-Orchid
This variety of Chinese orchid is an excellent Yin tonic and longevity herb. It is said to quickly and effectively replace spent “adaptive energy. Dendrobium helps keep the skin moist and helps generate beautiful skin.

Gynostemma pentaphyllum- jiao gu lan
Gynostemma is used to slow down aging and to prevent feebleness and senility; to reduce fatigue, to increase vigor; to improve digestion; to strengthen the mind; and to improve sex functions. It generally reinforces overall health and is viewed as a virtual “cure-all” in Asia.

Cervus nippon-lu rong-Deer antler
It is widely used in Asia to strengthen adrenal, reproductive and brain functions. It is universally believed in the Orient to build sexual strength and to increase virility and fertility.

Morinda officinalis-ba ji tian-Morinda Root and Vine
It is widely used in impotence formulations as it increases sexual strength in men and women. It tonifies the Kidney energy and corrects soreness of the lower back and knees, and joint pain. It is used by women for infertility and frigidity. Morinda is used widely in China to increase mental power.

Cuscuta chinensis-tu si zi-Cuscuta
Cuscuta is gentle tonic for the Kidney Yin and Yang. It nourishes and consolidates Kidney Qi. It is widely used to improve vision, nourish the sperm and marrow, strengthen bones and sinews. It strengthens sexual functions, prevents miscarriages, relieves vaginal dryness and soothes anxiety associated with sex.

Cinnamomum cassia-rou gui-Cinnamon bark
Cinnamon bark is a strong essence tonic that promotes circulation and warms internal energy; it is said that it leads energy back to the source, or Kidney. Cinnamon bark increases the Yang energy and sexual vitality.

Cynomorium-suo yang
Cynomorium is a superb tonic to the primal yang essence and is used in many tonics for both men and women. It is widely believed in the Orient to be a superb longevity herb and an excellent sexual tonic and stimulant.

I worked in a hormonal clinic where women used progesterone cream, but when tested they had often over-done it and created more problems. Also, women were using testosterone, but there were often nasty side effects like insomnia and facial hair.

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Question by e.mehringer: Is there something that I can take over the counter for low libido?
Is that anything that I can take OTC for low libido? I’m 29, have three kids and a part time student.

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Answer by Lost Angel
sounds like if you had a little less to do

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Question by Kim M: Is there anything on the market to subdue a female’s sex drive?
I am a 42 year old woman and (so I’m told) in my sexual prime. Problem is, it’s driving me nuts!!! I can’t think of anything else! So, I was wondering, since there are things to boost the sex drive, what about quench it????? Help!!

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Answer by harleyryder42
Contact me..let’s chat!!!!!!

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Question by david anderson: Are there transgendered hormones that don’t hurt male sex drive?
I am a 15-year-old boy but I am very interested in cross-dressing or being Anderogynous (gender-less), and would like to know if there are modified hormones that soften skin, hair, and nails; reposition body fat; and stop further body hair BUT DO NOT cause breast growth or give negitive effects to the penis.

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Answer by Deandrea Barlow
To be honest, I think you should take sometime to get to know you, hell it took 30 years before I found out who i was (although i had an idea from age4)…who knows you might be fine just as you are, and there are some things about HRT that are not reversable…you please take some time and think about it.

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Question by : Is there a pill that exists that will increase female libido and sex drive and help me get wet? ?
I’m desperate. For some reason the past few months Im
Finding it really difficult to orgasm or get wet! I’m really frustrated, i wish I had a pill I could take like a female Viagra to help me. It’s really getting me down ! U know any gd pills that work? Thanks

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Answer by Lozza
There is actually a female viagra, called “Intrinsa”. You can get it on the NHS I believe. Hope that helps!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-444518/The-female-Viagra-hits-NHS.html

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/6495211.stm

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Question by Rob B: Are there any scents known to improve libido?
My wife suffers from low libido and will not see a doctor about the issue, but she does love candles. I was wondering if I could use scented candles to do an end-run around the problem by finding a scent that is known to increase libido. I figured anything would be worth a shot at this point. Ideas?

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Answer by TPR
Hi Rob,

I have a nice collection of candles, all sorts really.
My favourite are mud chocolate scented candles, they are so lovely and they do get us both in the mood.

My tip for you though, would be to aim for relaxation, because all great sex begins with a lovely bit of relaxation. So heres my tips for you, based on my own experience.
Light a candle of your wifes favourite scent
Only use lubricants, massage oils etc, with the same or no scent at all compared to the candle, as too many candles can really smell sickly.
Offer a foot massage, and work your way up from there, making sure she is comfy and relaxed.
Be persistent with this, even if she doesnt really go for it the first time round, it will work!
Floral and fruity scents dont work for me, they just smell too sickly sweet, but a nice softly scented mocha or chocky candle is just lovely.
Good luck!!

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Question by The Rottweiler: Is there anything to increase female sex drive that will counteract with the side affects of anti-depressants?
When my girlfriend and I started dating, she was a VERY sexual girl, wanting to have sex at every possible moment. However, she started taking her anti-depressants again and it has nearly KILLED her sex drive, going from sex at LEAST daily to having sex maybe once a week or two times on a good week. She is just as frustrated as I am because she knows it is frustrating for me and while it isn’t causing me to rethink our relationship at ALL, it is something that, if I could have the old her again, of course I would love it. It would make both of us very happy. Me: VERY HAPPY!! But I told her I would ask on here and see if anyone knows any remedies to help out or anything that is proven to help. Please help for the sake of our love life!! Anything that will counter-act the anti-depressants grip on her sex drive! Thank you guys!

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Answer by Mary
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.

One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn’t the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don’t cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it’s the female version of viagra. I had to find out.

I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don’t get multiple orgasms but I’ve had plenty since being on these herbs. It’s seriously like the best vibrator ride you’ve ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don’t even take them because the urge is just too strong.

Don’t try out single herbs because they don’t do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I’ve tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I’m on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don’t work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won’t have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn’t want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.

Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.

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Question by Catty: Is there anything to treat low male libido?
My husband has absolutely no libido. He’s had extensive tests and he’s a very healthy man. He’s on hormone replacement for low testosterone but it has had no affect on his libido. Is there any medication or herbal supplement that he can take that REALLY helps? Anyone have experiences in this?

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Answer by Michael Lawton
Most male enhancement supplements (Virility Ex, Extenze, Enzyte, Spartan Blend, Expanzite, etc.) contain herbs that have been shown to have strong effects on libido and circulation. They can increase blood flow to the penis, and can help tone the pelvic floor muscles. More blood flow can lead to larger, harder erections, and toned pelvic floor muscles can make a penis stand more erect.

Tell him to talk to his doctor before he takes anything, in case of drug-interactions, side effects, or allergic reactions, etc.

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Question by Billy: How can i kill my sex drive? Is there a pill i can take over the counter?
I heard they have something they used to give to military peoples.
Where can i buy this? If i had my testicules cut off, would my sex drive go away?

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Answer by Yug
What the hell? Are you a rapist or something? Have you finally realised the error of your ways?!

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